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Hurt people hurt people

Dit is een gezegde, las er een blog over in het engels,
https://josephmattera.org/why-hurt-people-hurt-people/

Wat interessant kan zijn vanuit datingpersectief is om te kijken en ervaren hoe de ander emotioneel volwassen is in het leven en zijn eigen stuk pijn en wonden kan dragen zonder de neiging overmatig te projecteren op de ander van de eigen pijn.

Dating kan echt ontspannen zijn als beide mensen een gezonde basis in zich zelf hebben en stoppen met verwachten dat de ander het hen geeft. Geef het jezelf om een geweldig leven te leven!

In het kort betekent het “Hurt people hurt people” is more than a clever phrase; it's a sad truth. Hurt people hurt others because they themselves have been hurt. And each one of us has been hurt to one degree or another. As that damage causes us to become defensive and self-protective, we may lash out at others.

Hurt people hurt people. Their reactions stem from past experiences that led them to certain beliefs that they accepted as truth. They are actually just preconceived ideas projected onto others to protect their ego

Er is zelfs een boek over en een liedje,

Samenvatting
Do you know someone, perhaps even a Christian, who seems impossible to get along with? From the people in the pews to the members of our families, we are surrounded by people who hurt other people. And they do so, the author tells us, because of the seemingly inescapable pain in their own lives. In this book, Dr. Wilson brings her years as a professional counselor to bear on a difficult topic that affects many of us. Let her warmth and insight lead you toward a heart of compassion and a ministry of healing for those who hurt others.

Dr Sandra D Wilson

urt People Hurt People
The Script
You take it out on me 'cause you got troubles at home
A big man like him better leave my girl alone
Listen, baby, we can get out of here
You can take my car and drive away all your fears
Don't you worry, I
Know just how you feel
You've been hurt before
Hurt people, they hurt people
Is it ever gonna stop?
Hurt people, they hurt people
So give me everything you've got
You might get lost, but you're no loser
And you might get used, but you're no user
And we ask ourselves, what are we doing?
But I stick by you, 'cause there's no choosing
Oh, no, don't you worry, I
Know just how you feel
I've been hurt before
Baby, hurt people, they hurt people
Is it ever gonna stop?
Hurt people, they hurt people
So give me everything you've got
Give me everything, everything you'v

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